The Lessons of Caring

Caring for your loved one doesn’t mean losing yourself.

This book shows you how to stay strong, be supported, and connect to a community.

The Lessons of Caring by Santo D. Marabella

If you’re a family caregiver, you already know:

  • It’s a labor of love, but it can be exhausting and isolating.
  • Most caregivers juggle a full-time job, a family, and the daily needs of someone they love—often without recognition or pay.
  • You give your heart every day… but who takes care of you?

That’s why I wrote The Lessons of Caring: Inspiration & Support for Family Caregivers. This book is your companion—filled with short, powerful lessons, encouragement, and practical tools to help you care for yourself while you care for others.

Customers’ reviews

What do people have to say about this book?

Don't be deceived by the shortness of this e-book, The Lessons of Caring! It is organized and efficient at conveying vital information for caregivers with a strong element of transparency and humor, adding a much-needed relatable human aspect for this topic. The introduction of each section begins with a short video from the author and other caregivers, adding a visual element which leaves the reader feeling less alone. Each of the 8 topics addressed are separated into The Lesson, A Mantra, The Questions, A Reflection and The Homework. They are written to be relatable, easily understood, and read anywhere (within the limited amount of time many caregivers experience) without losing depth or potency. Helpful techniques and activities are suggested in a non-condescending manner, and homework given should the reader wish to implement a change into their life. The Lessons of Caring is not only an extremely helpful, short read that caregivers can return to repeatedly, but also a tangible way to feel less alone providing the opportunity to connect with others in similar situations for ongoing support, if desired. Highly recommended!
Sharon C.
Amazon review
If you are a full time, part time or caregiver without day-to-day responsibilities, this book is for you. It's about caring for yourself. He's real about regrets, grief, frustration and all the emotions you wouldn't dare say out loud. But it's not enough to FEEL it, he gives you tools and exercises to work through it. He's not promising that he can resolve everything, but he is helping you get to a place of peace. PEACE. If you're frustrated, angry and just can't take it anymore....THIS is what you need NOW.
Holly W.
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The Lessons of Caring is a very insightful book, which is written with unique perspective. You will not only recognize your own emotions, but also gain an understanding of the challenges faced by the person for whom you are caring. As the care giver, you are given validation, affirming your feelings, and realizing the commonality you share with other care givers. The helplessness and lack of independence felt by the infirm is brought to the forefront in each lesson, providing an awareness of his or her frustrations. I highly recommend this book, not just for care givers, but for anyone wanting to treat others with love and respect.
Amazon customer
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I know this journey because I lived it.

I was an only child caring for both of my parents—my mom through dialysis and cancer, my dad through 17 years of Parkinson’s. They struggled to sustain their quality of life, independence and dignity. I didn’t always make the best choices, but I did always have their best interests driving my actions.  It was my greatest personal challenge, and I don’t want anyone to feel as alone as I did.

-Santo D. Marabella

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Why You’ll Love It

The Lessons of Caring by Santo D. Marabella

This book isn’t academic...

It’s practical, accessible, and rooted in real-life lessons. I gained my experience caring for my elderly, Italian-American parents. While my journey may not mirror the path every family caregiver follows, The Lessons of Caring offers reflection, support, and encouragement to help you grow through your own caregiving experience.

"Caregiving for a loved one is a priceless gift - it’s the toughest and most rewarding job you will ever have!”

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